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  • interrobang@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneRule
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    2 months ago

    When my wife was newly transitioned, we were out in a big box store and she remarks, exasperated, “everyone is just stopping in my way or way invading my personal space today! Wtf!”

    Nope, thats just how people treat women in public lol.

    You never needed to earn being yourself via suffering, no one owes that to anyone, but I have witnessed personally just how authentically the public mistreats all femme people.










  • When people around me complain about being worn out, i cheerfully remind them that we’re about the only critters that don’t just fucking REST when we’re TIRED.

    Why the FUCK is it normal to down stimulants ‘like an adult’ instead of napping?

    I’m narcoleptic, and I’ve been defending my need for sleep my whole life- but mostly, its me reminding people that I nap when my body feels fatigued, like every other mammal I’m aware of, and perhaps I’m not the unusual one.





  • Not op, but I eat very little meat, and when i stay with vegan friends and eat their food it takes me longer to feel dirty. Its wild.

    Cutting red meat & fast food made the biggest difference, followed by other meat, then dairy, in body smell.

    Now that i think about it, i play sports and get very cuddly with vegans and i can’t remember ever noticing anyone smelling too bad, which is surprising.

    I have started trying to eat closer to vegan before we visit, because I definitely notice the difference on myself and my wife.