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  • Panel 1: A person with the text “Singular ‘they’” written on them smiling with open arms.
  • Panel 2: “Singular ‘They’” beaten up by others who said, “Singular they is ungrammatical. It’s too confusing,” “How can anyone use plural pronouns for singular,” and “Every pronoun should only have one purpose.”
  • Panel 3: “You” hiding from the mob who was beating “Singular ‘They’”
  • Panel 4: “German ‘Sie’” hiding with even more fear next to “You”
  • DharkStare@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Singular they sometimes works and sometimes it sounds odd. It usually sounds off when used by itself without following something explicitly singular.

    “The customer forgot their wallet. Can you bring it to them?” sounds correct but if you just do

    “They forgot to pay their bill” it sounds like you’re referring to multiple people instead of a singular person.

    Edit: Changed to a better example.

    • Neato@kbin.social
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      1 year ago

      “They left their wallet on the table” it sounds like you’re referring to multiple people instead of a singular person.

      Does it? If multiple people left multiple wallets on the table, it would be, “They left their wallets on the table.” Multiple people can’t really leave a single wallet behind. Or at least that would be very unusual and unintuitive.

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          1 year ago

          “They forgot to pay their bill” it sounds like you’re referring to multiple people instead of a singular person.

          This sounds normal to me, how else would you word it?

          • DharkStare@lemmy.world
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            1 year ago

            If it was a singular customer, I would say “He forgot to pay his bill” (or she/her depending on the gender).